Monday, June 9, 2008

Turning the Tables

I noticed yesterday that an anonymous reader left a comment suggesting that my email be hacked.

I almost don't know what to say. Yes I, Melissa Havergal, am for once at a loss for words.

Has this suddenly turned into a trust game? You didn't find enough evidence with Annabelle and now you're turning on me? This is crazy! Maybe it was wrong of me to even think of, or suggest, hacking their accounts - it came in a moment of weakness, of absolute desperation.

Now, as much as I'm trying to move on, I can't. Each step drags me backwards. But hacking my account? Please, if there's something you want from me, just ask.

Monday, June 2, 2008

everything has changed

It's a funny thing, friendship.

So many of you have really come to my side to help me out in the past month, and I truly thank you for that.

So much has changed in such a short amount of time. Probably the biggest thing that happened was Jake and I calling off our engagement. It was really painful, first the questions about what happened with him and Annabelle, then how it all played out so publicly. My parents really loved Jake too, and despite any problems we had had, they always stood by him, so this really was a blow to them as well.

I stopped working at Gorman and associates -- it was too much to see Annabelle every day, and have started my own boutique marketing firm. I was doing so much "geurilla PR" before, it really only made sense.

Anyway -- back to SocialLife! Sorry for all the drama (although welcome to all my new friends and readers)... Last night there was an amazing event at the Museum of Natural History, with artists and musicians and historians all discussing ethics and art and the future of humanity. It got pretty heavy, having pop stars, artistes and academics in one conversation... But the pay off was a fascinating night and an incredible after party!

xox, more soon,
Melissa