Monday, June 9, 2008

Turning the Tables

I noticed yesterday that an anonymous reader left a comment suggesting that my email be hacked.

I almost don't know what to say. Yes I, Melissa Havergal, am for once at a loss for words.

Has this suddenly turned into a trust game? You didn't find enough evidence with Annabelle and now you're turning on me? This is crazy! Maybe it was wrong of me to even think of, or suggest, hacking their accounts - it came in a moment of weakness, of absolute desperation.

Now, as much as I'm trying to move on, I can't. Each step drags me backwards. But hacking my account? Please, if there's something you want from me, just ask.

Monday, June 2, 2008

everything has changed

It's a funny thing, friendship.

So many of you have really come to my side to help me out in the past month, and I truly thank you for that.

So much has changed in such a short amount of time. Probably the biggest thing that happened was Jake and I calling off our engagement. It was really painful, first the questions about what happened with him and Annabelle, then how it all played out so publicly. My parents really loved Jake too, and despite any problems we had had, they always stood by him, so this really was a blow to them as well.

I stopped working at Gorman and associates -- it was too much to see Annabelle every day, and have started my own boutique marketing firm. I was doing so much "geurilla PR" before, it really only made sense.

Anyway -- back to SocialLife! Sorry for all the drama (although welcome to all my new friends and readers)... Last night there was an amazing event at the Museum of Natural History, with artists and musicians and historians all discussing ethics and art and the future of humanity. It got pretty heavy, having pop stars, artistes and academics in one conversation... But the pay off was a fascinating night and an incredible after party!

xox, more soon,

Thursday, May 8, 2008

I'm back

Hi guys.

Sorry for the strange post and then the long absence.

I went up to the farm for the week, just to clear my head. I needed to get out of the city for a bit.

All that said... Thank you to those of you who helped me out with that weird riddle message...

I've spent a lot of time the last few days thinking about how to handle this, how public to make it.

I'm sure by now many of you have seen the photos of my fiancee and my best friend together. Together. It's so weird to even say it. I can't bring myself to repost it, but its out there on Flickr.

There's a part of me that still is holding on to the last bit of hope that maybe its a giant, vicious misunderstanding... I don't know how to find out for sure, the two people I would have turned to in the past are the two people I now question the most.

If only I could see their emails, or know more about what is going on, how long it's been going on. What do people usually use for passwords? Pets names? Important dates? bdays? Favorite things?

I can't believe I'm even thinking like this...

Friday, April 25, 2008


Ok, you guys have been around for a lot of drama... but this is particularly weird.
Someone just left this comment on the blog in response to my last post with pics from the birthday party... and I don't know what it's about but my stomach sort of did one of those flips, you know?

I've re-read it a few times. I'm guessing maybe, maybe it has something to do with Flickr, because it rhymes (I'm not totally backwater) but I don't really know how to decode this kind of message the way some of you do.

I really don't know why anyone would send this to me?

If anyone knows what this means, or can help me figure it out, I'd really appreciate it :)

Thanks... Feelin' unsteady.... Melissa

Anonymous lova ya said...

confessions of an ugly step sister
there once was a couple that never did bicker
if they got any sweeter it would make us all sicker
she left the ball early
and forgot her glass shoe
the question, miss perfect
is what(who) did prince charming do?

April 25, 2008 9:34 AM



Here are some promised pics guys!

I am so exhausted, I can't even tell you, but a promise is a promise and I didn't want to keep you waiting. 

I had to wake up so early this morning it almost would have been worth just staying up all night... then at least I wouldn't have had to leave the party early... Although if you scroll down you'll see I wasn't the only one who was tired!


Thursday, April 24, 2008

I love birthdays!

Ok, just a short post because I'm just about to run out the door and get things ready for tonights birthday party. It's just a little one, but really it's all of Annabelle's nearest and dearest.

Can't say more except that it's going to be a super fun night! (Oh, except that I'm going to have to duck out early because Anderson - my boss - wants me on site tomorrow at 5am!)

Will post pics as soon as I can!

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

A Surprise Hit! (Item listed as medium spicy to hot)

I wasn't planning on going to the Basement Remix Sessions at the Bowery last night... but the organizers called me last minute saying it had turned from a hot-Tuesday-event to a can't miss, once a season chart topper.

They didn't lie. Those are big expectations to live up to, but it was incredible. The crowd was an amazing mix of scenesters, socialites and artsy avant guardettes, and amazingly, the place was packed before 930, but never had a line. Maybe that's because admission was through the kitchen's staff exit.

Leona Hartzimeyer showed up at 11, right when I was thinking of heading out( I do work after all) and having not seen that girl in months, I decided to stay a while. Leona is the funniest non-comedienne you'll ever meet. For those of you not familiar, she's the gorgeous raven haired Page Six regular. Honestly, I've never seen a photo where the person beside her isn't similing, or laughing. Last night turned out to be a bit of an exception because (and here's a scoop I may just beat Page 6 to...) well, she broke up with Harvey. At the event. In the middle of the dance floor. 

Poor guy. Leona is a sweet girl, but what was she thinking, with such a public break up? The gossip will go crazy, and even if she had her reasons she'll be painted as a heartbreaker. Oh well, Harvey is a catch, I'm sure hs phone has been ringing off the the hook.

There was an incredible line up of dj's - all young, none of them brand names yet. If it had been a Friday, or even a Thursday, this place would have been off the hook wild.

Anyway, that's it for now. Love and scandal and lots of burning ears today!

xo, Mel